Should I carry on asking him to talk to me or move on . so yeah.. is he playing. I honestly thought he was ghosting me. Imagine you have a dog. I believe that when he withdraws like this and possibilities one, two, and three have been ruled out, it says a lot about his confidence in the relationship. As gemini once I feel things are changing I start worry. In my opinion, we Scorpios take offhanded comments a bit too personally. If he is distant keep it moving and show him that you wont lose any sleep. 14 Leo - Has A Fear Of Settling. I've been dating a new Scorpio for 3 months now that I fell in love with almost right away. [7] I haven't acted clingy at all, and I don't plan on doing so at any point. If you take out their eye, they'll kill you. He claims you. These in-between times usually happen when he is trying to make an effort because he knows you probably don't understand his intensity or because he's genuinely curious about something you mentioned. And if you don't remember the first few times you tugged on his tail, because his response wasn't memorable, wellthat's not his problem. If they keep asking, I either lash out because I want them to go away without explaining that I am upset or I pretend that I just don't feel well. What do I do?? Espesh if you're with a Scorp man for sure!! Yes, a scorpio man is a one task at a time individual, so say that they have alot of things to accomplish in such a short period of time or they feel overwhelmed they tend to withdrawal a bit and it really takes a women whom is strong and can handle finding things to do on your own. Not just gentle, affectionate touch, but also some straight groping. But when I speak to him its just short answers. He has this Sunshine Smile, this happy Puppy Look. You push people away, because your own sense of emotional comfort or inertia is easier than going deeper in the relationship. . But you need to remember that he needs to show the same concern for you. Virgos are often extremely cautious in love and will consider all odds before letting feelings arise towards someone. I am freaking crazy about this guy. I forgot to mention that he's really not good at communicating anything. I have even called him out on his silence. But here's the thing Scorpio is either ice or fire. At the very least, he will reassure you that you are not the problem. They push them away when they know they must seriously focus on the former. He broke up with me over text about a week and 3 days ago. You feel dissatisfied with your life as it is. 1) they take time to find love. The messages he sent me were slaughtering and he even threatened to put our rude conversations all over Facebook. Be there for him when he needs you. Scorp men take tend to take it to heart when you go to other people especially guy friends for advice. He finally said "LEAVE ME ALONE, I DID THIS EASY AND CLEAN" Stop calling stop texting. Help he is turturing me with mind and body. Have I lost him for good? Mine always seems to have no time for me . You push people away, because your own sense of emotional comfort or inertia is easier than going deeper in the relationship. I always give him space even when I don't need vis versa. hi, i'm aqua girl, student 23 yr old. BUT i get irritated by his over caring and controlling nature. and I know for a fact his days are not that busy. Do I give him space and let him sort it out? Yep, he'll sometimes do things like this to see where your loyalty is, if you have patience and if you're willing to . he ask my fav music, random question like kiss ot hug? This is all part of Scorpio's testing phase. I waited a day to respond, and just said "hi." So I recently met a scorpio and we instantly had a spiritual, physical and emotional connection. So, I got so pissed because I was very hurt, thinking he didn't care about me and my feelings to let me know and make sure I'm ok. Of course I understand he was sick and needed to take care of himself but my problem was that he didn't tell me until he was already leaving. I think the act of distancing himself is more painful than you realize and it probably takes extreme will to stay away. I know I hurt him and I regret and I said that. They need lots of love , attention & affection . with my mother I learned to just nod and agree. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 30, 2012: amymarie 5 - Thanks! He had helped me with some work stuff two weeks ago, but then told me how it stressed him out. Or he will suddenly have an "issue" where life seems overwhelming. Being in Love is wonderful. Even i cant meet any boy (friend) without his permission. Certainly, you should be remorseful for intentionally hurting someone you love. Most of time i have to think before making a friend with any other boy. Compared to the scorpio where evrything goes down to sex, not many questions..just flirting and dirty talks Hi there I am a Scorpio also a boy. But things are slowy getting boring for me. So I have dated a scorpio several years ago, we reconnected. To everyone out there firstly, although I personally love my sunsign and I do think people possess certain core characteristics based on their sunsigns , you have to acknowledge the fact that every individual is complex and not binary ( I.e. Their rage is intense and packs a punch. The Scorpio man is perfect in every way. Whether its a friendship or relationship or anything else, keeping others at an arms length is often a Taurus feeling afraid that they will be a poor influence, or at the very least, distract or discourage them from what they really want to accomplish in life. We had a great connection, long amazing talks, which he would usually initiate, so we both agreed to take things slowly. You have to be the one who cares less in the relationship. This is why Scorpios like to follow long-term partnerships, but also why the heart of their partners shakes when a covert affair arises. "You are mine" is the message you'll receive when you're in your Scorpio man's lovin' arms. Rated all ups!! LeAve Nd then reappear in my life. Now he says he loves me but it's not the same as it was. He'll put this to the test. I have a huge problem I was dating my best friend who is a Scorpio and he was such an amazing man. Remember there arent only 12 kinds of people in this world !! Should I give him his space to think? I am preparing to leave her and I have been distancing myself. If you aren't sure about him, don't put up with his games. Would appreciate your advice. 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Scorpio and Cancer interact on a highly intuitive and subjective level. I was almost ready to give up on him until I read this article. Girls, start dating around casually, see what else is out there besides him. Answer (1 of 5): Yes. I am not giving up on Him, not giving up on us. his actions do not depend on just the fact that he is a Scorpio). Hi, I'm a Leo who was dating a Scorpio for 3 and half months. Drama drama and drama.Disappearances hot and cold. Dont give in to him. Wish we will be together soon. There is nothing I don't love about this man. This could also be good as they have some common positive attributes. Empathy is a strength. Pay Attention:Be attentive and pay attention to the signs your pup is giving you. I woke up the next day with him just going off his nut and blocking me on his facebok. We haven't talked to each other much since. Then you can slowly start to open up and show your more sensitive side. We rather cut ties then to cheat and if we do cheat you'll know why whether you say or not but rarely. I just told him I was over the whole thing and we havent spoken since. He ignored my calls and texts for days and finally when he did hey back to me he said he can't commit to anything.. Does he seem intensely interested in you and your plansalmost coming off as a bit of a stalkerbut only to go off the grid completely before once again coming onto you as strongly as before? Also, promise them you will never do it again in the future. I am hoping he will talk to me soon. but he did not even read my message for 2 weeks. this morning when we went to my office he is very sweet. The disadvantage in this relationship is that both are intense and are too much alike. I told him many times I wasn't a good communicator but he said that's okay. They are a little different . Both should understand this and try and capitalize on the positives than the negatives. It tells me that he thinks the relationship is strong enough that he doesn't have to worry about putting on a show and being talkative every day. However, they shy away from people when they recognize that . 6. Anyway, we decided to meet up but it didn't end well; I arrived at our meeting place and he wasn't there so I texted him, but he said that I wasn't there so he went to hang out with a friend. You have to understand that Scorpios are intense. Be straightforward and try to get to the bottom of the issue. Libras are constantly at odds between what they want and what they thinkotherpeople want. Make him WORK for you, if he wont then keep it moving as he will if it were you. But I emailed him many times apologizing to him and saying that I loved him and asking him to forgive me but I did not get even one word back. Make sure you're keeping up with your friends, your hobbies, and your career, and let him do the same. When your Scorpio partner is feeling shy or uncomfortable, they may use physical signals (like clenching their jaw or shrinking away from you) as ways of communicating with you. I would argue the opposite. Financially you are in a good place. However, I Want To Emphasize That A Scorpio Going Away May Not Be That He Or She Is Pulling Away From You. All is forgiven; the dog can tell the difference between a purposefully placed foot and an accidental injury. However, remember that astrology should be used as a tool to better understand your partner and your unique dynamic, not to define the relationship and its outcome. Well, a couple days ago, he texts me out of the blue "hey wife." then his txts are so short without endearment. And the emotions of others merely scratch the surface. The Moon is in its fall in Scorpio, which is not the most optimum placement. nways, before our first meeting, i asked him to confirm our meeting but he didn't replied.